"Women seeking MEN"...not BOYS!

Is there a time when a boy turns into a man? I mean really! Is it so hard to be a man? I'm asking because I obviously do not know the answer to that. From my point of view it looks to be a very difficult task. Now, I'm not speaking about all of the male species, just most. I do know a few real men. Men who aren't afraid to take chances. Men who will treat women with love, respect, gentleness, appreciation, etc. Do you (women) ever just get frustrated with men? Whether it be a friend, boyfriend, fiance, husband, or whatever? How do you deal?! Giving up is not the answer, but it seems to be the easiest option!!